Cervix Clock
Her cervix can usually be found in the upper rear part of her vagina. The cervix feels like a little dome of tissue, and may also have a small cleft in the middle, like your chin. Carefully stimulate the area surrounding the cervix. She may enjoy this and want you to do it more often; or she won't.

Fingers On The Hood
Given how the clitoral area is often more sensitive than any single part of the penis, you don't want the rough skin of your fingers rubbing across it. Gently push and pull on the clitoral hood and labia when first touching her genitals. Using the vaginal lips as leverage can provide pleasing stimulation without painful friction.

From The Outside
Lay your free hand over the lower part of her abdomen. Experiment by applying different kinds of pressure with the top hand while fingers from your other hand are inside her vagina.

Copy Cat
An excellent way to learn more about pleasing her is to rest your fingers over hers while she is masturbating herself. Then do the reverse, with her fingers acting as guides for your own.

Off The Edge
Another form of genital massage can be done by holding a lubricated lip between your thumb and forefinger. While squeezing just a little, pull your fingers straight away from her body. Your fingers will end up in the air an inch or two above her body, as though you had pulled them off the edge of a tabletop. If she likes this, repeat it many times.

Ovarian
Ask her to help you locate her ovaries. They can usually be felt in the deepest part of the vagina and to the far left or right. Some women will like you to massage this area, others will find it painful. Sensitivity will also vary with her menstrual status.

Invitation Only
Begin with a light, gentle caress that barely touches the inner thighs and pubic hair. Don't go much further until your partner's pelvis begins to arch upwards. Tease and caress until the lips of her vulva invite your fingers inside.

Lip Tracer
After applying lubrication, it might be nice to begin with one of the large outer lips. Place the lip between your thumb and forefinger, clasping it at the base where it attaches to the main part of her body. Then run your fingers (or fingertip) from the lower to upper part of the lip. Repeat this as long as she wants. You can also make an upside down horseshoe pattern with a fingertip by starting at the lower inside part of one lip and finishing at the lower inside part of the other. Try it with both inner and outer lips.

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