Rimming

Rimming is also called "analingus" and it’s another way to explore the rear end. It involves licking, tonguing, and sucking the anus. Analingus is nice as a part of Around the World - kissing and tonguing the body all over. You can lick across the anus in soft, wet strokes, or encircle it, going round and around softy and slowly.

You can flick the tongue-tip rapidly, or insert it inside as far as it'll go, pushing and stroking back and forth. You can brush the lips gently over the anus, or suck hard on the anus, as if trying to draw it out. This is especially nice if combined with tongue insertion. If, while you're being rimmed, you push down and relax the anus as if shitting, it will expand a little outwards, giving more area to caress and even nibble at. It's also nice to combine analingus with tonguing and sucking at her clit. In fact, the whole area between the legs is soft and sensitive to touching and licking.

What Type of Stimulation Do You Enjoy?

1. Do you enjoy the movement of a finger, and the feeling of entry and withdrawal? If so, then you may want to try penetration with your partner's penis or using an anal toy.

Later, you might want to try a dildo (a straight, smooth, round tipped object like those found in sex shops). It's a good idea to use something that won't break, such as plastic or rubber. Glass objects can sometimes shatter. Candles are popular, but there is the risk of it breaking and leaving half stuck inside, so be careful.

2. For those who enjoy the feeling of penetration more than motion or vibration, try butt plugs which are designed specifically for this purpose. A butt plug sits inside the anus, and not usually used for thrusting back and forth.

The easiest thing to do is rotate your rear in a circular way, as he thrusts. A tricky and subtle thing is to learn how to squeeze your anus, tight and loose, to fondle his penis more and start vibrating, growing ripples up and down your rectum. You'll know if you're moving in good ways, because you'll feel a rhythmic flow inside and out.

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