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Seduce and Enjoy
By the Skinful Staff

Last month you have took advantage of this thing that women crave more than chocolate: Romance. If you were slick, you took advantage of your new found knowledge and surprised her. You might even have gotten yourself some sex.. But for those who are lazy and didn’t take advantage of this information or forgotten last month’s equation for more sex, here it is again:

The Amount of Romance + The Amount of Seduction = The Amount of Sex

Now commit this equation to memory and don’t forget it. I am not going to want to remind you again. Sheesh. Men.

This month we are going to teach you about the second part of this equation, seduction.

If you look at romance it consists of things that you do when you are around other people or things that your partner will tell other people about the things you do. Seduction is different for many people, but it is based upon intimacy. When the two of you spend time alone, this is when you need to take out your knowledge of seduction.

Where Seduction Starts
In order to seduce a female all you have to know is that it starts with you. Seduction is about trying to build interest in her to make her want you more. To build interest, it starts with the things that you do and how you do it.

The Things that You Do
There are many things that you can do to seduce a girl, but the first thing you have to look at is your appearance. When any woman looks, she will judge you. It doesn’t matter who she is, she will make preconceived notions about you. Your partner will even do this. Let’s look at an example. Say you have plans for dinner. If you come and pick her up wearing jeans and a t-shirt, she will not think that it is a big dinner, but if you show up wearing a suit and tie, she will think it’s classy and will expect more. Looks, the way you smell, and the way that you say things makes her want you more. Your appearance is one thing that a man can control, so it would be a good idea to always put your best foot forward.

How You Do It
There are many ways you can seduce her. As we said controlling looks is a start but there are other things your can do to help you. Using the element of surprise is one example. Imagine surprising her with a gift. The look on her face and the sparkle in her eyes will show you how much she enjoys the gift. Surprises keep the female interested in you and what you have in store for them. Surprises make them want more.
Furthermore, you must learn how to do the little things that she appreciates. Women notice the small things that you do. So if you baby-sit your little niece or do something small for her she will notice this. If you can find out what she enjoys doing and do them with her, she will not only notice but want to spend more time with you. Some men might call this sucking up, but a master of seduction calls these seduction points. The more seduction points that you have the better a chance you have with getting her into bed. It is these seduction points that increase desire.

Seduction Ends With Her
When you finally master your part of the seduction equation, the desire for you will increase, but it doesn’t end here. Now all you have to do is take advantage of this desire and concentrate on her. Seduction will always start with the male building desire and end with the male giving her what she wants. Don’t be at her beck and call and give her things on a sliver platter. Do things but surprising her. If done right she will be begging for you. If done wrong, she may never want to talk to you again.

When concentrating on the female, you will have to indulge her senses, mainly the sense of sight, the sense of smell, the sense of taste, the sense of hearing, and the sense of touch.

Sense of Sight
The sense of sight works on the principal of how the man looks and building desire through his actions. The scenery, location, and atmosphere is also something you need to look at. Try to choose a place where the two of you can be alone and concentrate on each other. The best part is this is the part of the seduction you can control.

Sense of Smell
The sense of smell can be built upon by using items such as candles and incense. Take advantage of the soothing effects that many senses have. Here is a list of a few essential oils and their healing powers:

Frankincense: for calming emotions
Lavendar: for relaxation
Peppermint: for quick energy
Sandalwood: for relaxation, digestion, dry skin
Jasmine: for confidence, sexuality, creativity

Sense of Taste
As many see it the desert is the final explosion of taste in your mouth which leads to your senses salivating for more. The men who know how to seduce usually have desert saved at their home when dinner is over. There are many essential foods that you should have in your house. All of these promote sexual activities and the sense of taste.

Fruits: strawberries, apples, grapes, kiwis
Condiments: whipped cream, chocolate syrup, honey
Sweets: Chocolate
Deserts: Ice Cream, Chocolate Cake
Liquors: Bailey’s Irish Cream, Kahlua, Other Liquors
Wine: Red Wine, White Wine, Blush, and Champagne

Sense of Touch
There are many ways to touch a woman’s body. For beginners you should start with a feather like touch right above her skin so you are only touching the small hairs on her body. In time you build up a feather like touch and then move on to finger tips. Use different types of movements when you are using your fingers. Then there is kissing, licking, sucking and biting. Each has their own effects and you should see how your partner reacts to each. Advanced people will know that an erotic massage is the best way to touch a girl.

Sense of Hearing
Finally, the sense of hearing can deal with the soft sounds of classical, jazz, or soft rock. Music should be playing in the background and if set up right you should not even know it is playing.

By incorporating what you have learned here, you will be ready for the tips we are going to provide you on erogenous zones. Stay tuned next month for these help hints, tips, and secrets.

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