Rear Entry Position
Also known by some as "doggy style"
the rear entry position is fairly easy to assume. The woman gets
either on her hands and knees or lays stomach first on the bed
with her lover behind her. He is on his knees or sometimes his
feet, and develops leverage by grasping on to her hips. Depending
on preference the man's legs can be inside of the women's legs or
outside of them. Couples may wish to have the woman's legs closer
together because it creates more friction between the penis and
vagina.
In this position a man has a great
deal of freedom for thrusting. Her movement is somewhat restricted
but this can be easy modified with an ottoman or low bed. The
woman can then rest the upper half of her body on a supporting
structure. This in turn gives her more freedom to move her hips
and pelvis. The rear entry position offers the couple a chance at
experiencing new sensations because the angle of entry is
different while deep thrusting is made much easier. All these
factors contribute to a particularly intense experience if you are
with the right partner. Most men find that it is difficult to
prolong their orgasm while in this position. The stimulation is
often too intense or overwhelming. Consequently the couple may
wish to save the rear entry position as a way to end their
lovemaking session.
Forward for
Pleasure
While the man lies on his
back on the bed, the female approaches him and straddles his hips
with her back to him. The true joy comes when she leans forward as
far as she can. Some women may want to grab onto their partner's
legs and pull themselves down to the bed. In so doing she
drastically alters the angle of penetration. Some couples may find
that it is uncomfortable until they adjust the angle of her hips a
little. Once this adjustment has taken place she will find
sensations unlike any other. She can then rock back and forth with
his legs for support or he may wish to support her hips with his
arms to assist her movement.
Although it is very
pleasurable this position provides little clitoral stimulation.
Consequently women who enjoy direct clitoral stimulation may not
enjoy this position as much as their partner.
The Chair
That wonderful
recliner can be used for another very satisfying, very relaxing
sexual position. This one is particularly great for those men who
have limited mobility due to accident or illness. The male just
sits comfortably upright in a chair while the woman sits down on
his lap as if she was using the chair as well. Her back is pressed
to his chest. The onus is on the female to provide all the
movement in this position but this movement is extremely easy.
With the support of her arms the female can use her legs to move
rapidly or slowly.
If a chair is not
convenient for you then you may wish to try a similar position on
your bed. The male kneels down with his buttocks on his ankles.
The female is directly in front of him allowing themselves to be
elegantly joined. There is not a great deal of movement available
to the couple but this position is very sensual and is recommended
for afterplay. When the couple is sitting joined, the male can
fondle her breasts or even massage her back. Often it is very
satisfying just to sit and hold her with soft music in the
background. From this position you both can move in unison and lay
down on your sides allowing greater comfort for both partners.
Fucking does not have to revolve around thrusting; it can be slow,
intimate and tender.
Face Down
The female lies face down
on the bed with her legs spread apart. The male then straddles the
female's thighs from behind. To enter easily it is useful to place
a pillow underneath her abdomen to shift the angle of her hips.
Also she can place a pillow beneath her head for added comfort.
Most men will find that establishing a rhythm with this position
is quite difficult. The problem is that the penis has a tendency
to slip out of the vagina forcing the couple to restart their
lovemaking. Take your time and start with slow shallow thrusts
until you get your rhythm.
Face Up
The male lies on his back
on the bed while the woman lays on him with her back pressed
against his chest. For the men who can support her weight
comfortably this position is a delight. It allows the man easy
access to the clitoris which can be massaged during the act. This
position is excellent for pregnant couples because it puts no
stress on the front part of a woman’s body. Spicing up this
position is quite easy. Massage oils can be applied by the male to
the female's breasts, shoulders and stomach. Some oils will heat
up when they are applied which can add extra stimulation to the
experience. If you are using condoms make sure that no oil comes
into contact with the condom that is in use. Other interesting
ideas to add to this position may be a vibrator. She can hold a
powerful vibrator near her clitoris which vibrates the vagina as
well. Both male and female will experience the stimulation.
Spoons
Both partners face the
same direction and lay on their sides, man behind woman. The man
may have to slightly angle his body so that entry is more easy.
Although thrusting and movement is inhibited in this position, it
is very close and intimate and may be a perfect way to begin
lovemaking.
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