All I want to know is why do some girls get off easy and some cant at all. I have had sex too many times and only gotten an orgasim with one guy twice. Is It me or the guy? Is it both of us? I cant seem to figure it out. I think its me. The only thing that works is water presure. Is it maybee about the pelvic thrust. The way they work it? Dose any bodie know?
well it really depends. do you get off alright when you masturbate? if the answer is "no" or "i honestly dont masturbate" then i'd say its about 75% your fault. the bottom line is how can you tell a guy how to please you if you cant even please yourself. but this doesnt sound like the case. if the answer is yes then there are still a few variables. believe it or not, alot of women dont cum from vaginal penetration. more than likely you fit in this category. from here you need to take your man and experiment in several positions and find the one youre most comfortable in and on that you can orgasm. for these experiments both of you need to understand the main objective is finding your best orgasm position. when you do just make sure you always hit this position no matter which guy your with. when you find a new partner, get a little aggressive about how you wanna do it. we guys wont mind. the fact that youre 18 and the guys youre messing with arent your sex gods yet does play a role but not as large as one might think. a vast majority of the nerves that give a woman an orgasm are on the surface of the vagina thus penetration wouldnt be the best choice for a guaranteed orgasm. try manual stimulation during penetration. how does your boy feel about oral sex? give a little, get a little.
