Ok when I finger my girlfriend and I stimulate her clit she squirms and and laughs and rolls around and she can be very loud sometimes. You would think that this would be a good thing right? but she squrims so much that it's like she cant stand it. But when I just finger her it's like I'm not doin anything at all I cant find a happy medimum for her and she is soaking wet when I do it. I have asked her about it and she just tells me that I'm doin fine but I want her 2 cum so what should I do
Sounds like her clitoris may be extra sensitive. This seems to be the case with many women. Try gently pushing and pulling on the clitoral hood and labia rather than stimulating the clitoris directly. Using the hood and lips as a buffer can indirectly provide pleasing stimulation to the clitoris without painful friction and can make your touch more bearable to the women who are extra sensitive. You can also try using another item as a buffer, such as licking her through her panties. Good luck. Keep us updated, ok?
Posted: 02.13.04
drew, 19
well the best thing you can do is watch her masturbate to see what she likes. different girls make different noises when youre pleasuring them. squirming around an extra amount is a lot better then if she was just laying there like she even know youre fingering her. if your not pleasuring her then she wouldnt be wet. just keep with hit and she'll bust a big 'O' eventually.