My husband has been looking at pron on the internet for a few years now. This didn't bother me much until I was missing out.I've also learned that he has a speorate e-mail account for this purpose. He works nights and is able to have internet sex while at work. I've tried to stimulate him but he tends to push me away, He has this problem of not being able to stay erected long enough to have sex, with me anyway. Oral sex doesn't help, it used to but no longer does, even bought toys to play with but he isn't interested. We've talked about this but he becomes very imbrasised. He has started to go to therapy but I feel he isn't working on this issuse out of imbrasisment. I very much need my husband and am in fear that this could build a seperation between us and in time end our marriage. When we talk he doesn't understand this either, and states"I'm just getting and looking at pictures".What is there to do now ????