I have been going out with my girlfriend for a while now, and i have tried fingering her several times. The problem is that she has never masterbated before, so she doesn't know what she needs done to have an orgasm. I ask her what feels good when i am playing with her clit..., and she tells me that it feels good, i dont even put my fingers inside her because she says it feels uncomfortable... HELP!!! i just want to please her, the way she pleases me.
well youre on the right track but its gonna be a bit harder than normal. she's not gonna know how to let herself orgasm, and its gonna feel unusual to her because she's not used to that much sexual stimulation. it is to my understanding that a tampon is about the size of a girls pinky finger. if you dont have slim fingers (like me) then its gonna feel very uncomfortable for you to stick your finger in her. start with one finger nice and lubed up until she gets used to how it feels. make sure you fingernails are trimmed very short. we do not have a part on our entire body that's as touch sensitive as the area your messing with. any small scratch in her pussy is gonna feel like a paper cut on your asshole. dont stay on the clit 100% of the time especially if your trying to give some bomb oral. get the clit and rub around the other parts of her pussy. stay with it and keep an open communication before after and especially during manual and oral sex.
Posted: 02.13.04
Anonymous, 18
make sure she is wet, lots of forplay. also some girls dont have the ability to cum at all but for most girls the clit is where its at. just work the clit if she dosn't feel comfortable with the fingers in her other than that i dont know what to tell ya hope i helped
