hello everybody
my bf split up with me after a two years long distance relationship. but it was not the distance that was leading to his decision. he told me he wanted to spend his life on his own now and not care for anyone as he became a selfish person! i could not belive what i was hearing! i loved him and he loved me and he had just been visiting me a week ago, saying everything was fine! we wanted to get married in two years and planned on kids and everything. how could he do this??
I think TGO may be right. Usually there's a hint of truth in any "story" someone feeds you.
My first guess would be that he found someone "local." Furthermore, it isn't a deep caring relationship, it's probably just physical, but very very fun for him. He's finding he likes the lifestyle so... He's feeling a little guilty about going behind your back so he's taking on some of the blame by calling himself selfish...
I know I know, probably reading way too much into this.
