well i have been with this guy for 19 months and we are soul-mates or at least thats what we use to believe. Well i had a son coming into this relationship and he always excepted him right from the start. Well last christmas i got pregnet and near the end of my relationship he started to leave and stay away for days on end without calling or anything and then when he was ready to come home it started out with he would write me sappy love letters and then he started to buy me gifts and flowers! Well since our son has been born almost four months ago he has started to leave for longer periods of time and not writing or giving me gifts or calling,he'll leave and then come back with no explanion why he left, where he was, who he was with, nothing and if i ask he gets really moody. He up and leaves his kids like they don't matter to him at all! I ask him if he cheated on me and he always says he would never cheat on me and he doesn't want anyone but me but i don't believe him anymore!
I am so lost and depressed and i don't understand why he is putting me and his kids though this.
Especially since we were suppost to be married this april. Please help me! I feel like i want to die!
hi sandra
wow you are my age and i just had a bad experience too. you can read it on the message board if you like.
it must be very hard especially when there are kids involved! try to forget about this jerk! he does not deserve you! you should look for someone that really cares! we are both still young so lets just find the RIGHT man that really cares in every situation! i know how hard it is - belive me ...
i heard that service on tv where joel osteen, the pastor said, shake it off and step up! that is my advice! dont let yourself go into depression!
all the best kate
