My wife has no sexual desire. She went to a doctor who have her hormones which she took for two weeks them decided that they made her sick and so she stopped. She used to let me have intercourse once a week. She would lie on her back the whole time and not move at all. She is dry so I used lubricant. Soon it was "hurry up and cum." Anyway the intercourse even once a week stopped. So her sex offering became a weekly "blow job." Basically she lies on her back and will lick my balls or let me use her mouth for oral sex but not to ejaculation. I am sexually frustrated and our relationship is in decline.
I don't think there is a standardized answer to this problem---it really depends on the two people in the marriage and their circumstances. Some men cheat and the wives don't care so long as the cheating never touches their lives. Some men take a mistress, some opt for divorce---as I say it all depends.
Of course the best solution is to try to put the relationship back on track. But to do this it takes two people dedicated to making the marriage work, and to making the relationship stronger. One partner can't save a relationship, it takes both partners. One of the partners will have to initiate the process but it takes two to make it work out.
Hormone therapy is only one of the options, there are others. I don't think it's fair (to either of you) to just try one option and if that doesn't work out to call it quits on the whole relationship. I think your wife and you should research and explore other availabe therapies before you call it quits. Of course that WOULD be my opinion because I'm never ready to call it quits until the last dog is dead! Good luck, Morris.
Posted: 01.02.04
tom, 33
time to play the game.................se wut else is out there......one life to live make it count!111
