Donia, 32

Hi David! I was separated from my husband about 3 years ago and am now divorcing. I have met almost everyone I've dated on the internet. It IS probobly easier for women, but I have met all kinds of people. I've made friends at the least...all the way up to having a relationship with someone for over a year. I've been told I've just been lucky, but it's been a wonderful experience.

David, 51

Thanks for the information. Yes. I have been active in a few activities at church. However, there are no available women there. I do have few hobbies. maybe I could use a few new ones.
Dud, I am sorry that you have had such bad experiences on the internet. I find it hard to accept " fat smelly pigs " as a way to describe people. I hope that things go a bit better for you.
Guin, I liked your advice, I have heard the statement "Get out" before! It was not a very nice thing to hear at the time. Hearing it now sure has a better meaning! lol
Anyone else with a little more advice?

Guin, 58

Yup, things have changed---a bunch! I don't envy anyone beginning all over again with the dating thing.

Some suggestions.

If you have a hobby/s get involved with clubs specific to your hobby---there should be some women involved (unless your hobby is kick boxing) and you'd at least have a handy icebreaker to begin a conversation and avoid some of those "awkward moments" that we all seem to have.

Take lessons in something you always wanted to know more about---art, dancing, photography, anything that would appeal to both men and women.

Most churches have singles groups, get involved in one of those.

Do some charity work if you have time. You will meet many people and perform a useful service as well.

The main thing is to get involved with other people. Get acquainted. You may not meet a person at any of the functions you attend BUT the people you interact with will sometimes introduce you to one of their friends.....

Get out, get acquainted, and good luck.

DUD, 40

David do yourself a favor. Don't look for women on the internet! Most of them are fat smelly pigs hiding behind the computer. Take it from someone from experience.