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ok... for the past year me and my girlfriend have been great.. other than the little arguments we've gotten in and settled.
But for the past week im getting kind of scared/worried.
Her best friend from ohio is visiting her right now. she's down here in florida for i think 2 weeks. Well on sunday, me, kim, and her best friend all hung out, went to the beach.. then i had to go to work. end of sunday.
Monday, she goes to school.. i wake up at 9am, she gets out of school at 1pm. kim came over my house when school let out.. said hi, but got mad because i didnt have any cigarettes.. i just laughed and said to get over it. So she left. didnt hear from her the rest of the day.
Tuesday, she doesnt go to school. i woke up at about 830 that morning, at breakfast, washed my car, showered.. blablabla.. called her house at about 120pm. she wasnt home. So i called her moms cell phone since she had it and she picked up and said she was at the beach. i asked her "did you go to school today?" she said "no."
then i asked "howcome you didnt call me, i would have gone with you two..." and she gets all mad and says "bullshit you never want to go to the beach, your no fun, you always complain about going to the beach." so i asked what made her think that i didnt want to go that day. (it was a beautiful day out) she said "whatever im hanging up now" and hung up. no goodbyes, i love yous, or anything..
wednesday, she went to school.. i had arrands to do, had to go to the bank, send out mail, and do some studying before i had to go to class later on that evening. i called her at about 4.30pm just to say hi and whats up and what not. she said nothing. i asked why she has been avoiding me for the past couple days. she said that i've become boring.. ?????? and i never want to do anything. (which is not true.) so i told her i wouldnt be so "boring" if i were invited to go out with them. Then she said she has to go, we'll talk later about it.
Thursday (today).. i called her about 1.15 when she usually gets home from school. i have been going through withdrawal not seeing her. i really want to hang out, and go do something. when i called.. she was sleeping and didnt want to do anything. (and she has the nerve to call me lazy) so i told her ill call her in 2 hours. i called her two hours later.. she got mad because i woke her up. She said she didnt want to hang out with me. she still wont give me a strait up answer on why she is avoiding me.
all i want to know is what should i do about this? i miss her a lot, and i think this is getting out of hand. its rediculous. i KNOW i did not do anything wrong. what can cause a girl to go completely crazy for no freak'n reason and get mad at her boyfriend???
sorry its so long. please help me out
Tyler, 19 |
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mero, 24
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sucker
shes out doing her thing while your at home being a sucker waiting for her to call. Do you really need to hear that you're plan b while shes out messing around and if things dont go the way she wants she crawls back to you? Why dont you open your eyes and realize that women move from boyfriend to boyfriend without even thinking about it twice. When you stopped talking to her it made her realize that you could go out and do the same thing and its that uncertainty that brought her back. stop being so whooped and start working the strings again, you should have her as the first string and then get some other girls for 2nd 3rd.....etc. stop being push over no girls want a push over....
mero, 24
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Posted: 11.20.03 |
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david, 26
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thats cool tyler i hope things work out for you.....at least u know u got the power .....hopefully she relizes the difference now,,,,,,,,,,,,,,take care tyler...
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Posted: 11.10.03 |
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Tyler, 19
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yea i stopped talking to her completely...
a week later after i posted this thread, she came to my door one night all sad and shit.
yea..she begged for me back.. i kind of just blew her off.. you know.. gave her the cold shoulder.
she called me the next day crying. i let her know that thats exactly how i felt.. she apologized and said she wont do that to me again...lol
anyways.. we are back together... blablabla
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Posted: 11.04.03 |
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david, 26
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you know i was readin the reply to this situation in wut cathy said........and,,,,,i think she read the wrong article!!! the thing is here,,,,,i feel she went out with her friend, relized that guys were comin up to her and her best friend.......liked the attention......and realized,that man.."i like this feeling" then she hella lkied the single life.....or the attention so then when u called.....it felt real boring......it felt normal again,,,,,,,sorta like when u go on a trip ......then are havin fun then as when u come home , it becomes normal again,,,,,wut i feel if u truly care bout her,,,,dont call her, dont do anything because as long as ur calling ur makin her feel powerful, ur makin it easy for her , rather than if u didnt call and just dissapeared , then she would wonder exactly wut u are doing, and maybe realize how bad she been treating u!!!!!!! leave her alone....if u wanna chance at here dont become a bug a boo...........even though its hard
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Posted: 11.03.03 |
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Cathy, 35
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Hi Tyler!
It's called being pregnant. When your pregnant, you get tired easily, you become emotional, your body goes through a lot of changes, you feel sick, crave strange things, etc.
She probably feels that you don't want to or aren't making an effort to see her. Not to mention the stress of the whole situation with her family and you and being pregnant and the abortion issue and the moving issue. Could be that she's just trying to figure out what to do about the whole situation.
Only advice I can give is for BOTH of you to decide what to do about the situation and for you to be there as much as possible for her no matter what conclusion you BOTH come to. Although the parents are strongly pushing for an abortion, they are not the baby's parents, you and Kim are. You and Kim are the ones who have to deal with the consequences whether you choose to keep the child or not. Either choice is a hard one to make. Weigh the pros and cons of the choices and discuss them with one another WITHOUT y'alls parents around. That way, whichever choice you make, there won't be hard feelings between you all.
I was in this same situation in my late 20s early 30s, and my boyfriend was adament about not having the child. I was not in a position to keep the child because of health reasons and so we got the abortion. It was not a pleasant experience because of the guilt and emotional distress that it causes. It may have been different if he wouldn't have just bailed on me afterwards. That's why I say just be there for her no matter what choice you two make, even if it appears that she's pulling away, just be there for her and support her as best as you can. Likewise, she needs to be there for you too because you are the other person that this situation is affecting, personally and emotionally.
I wish you and Kim all the best.
Cathy
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Posted: 10.26.03 |
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